Put on your dancin’ shoes—for a good cause

Ryan O'Connor.

If you like to dance, want to help Matheny—or better yet, both—save Friday, April 20. That’s the date for the Dance-A-Thon at Immaculate Conception School in Annandale, NJ, which this year will benefit Matheny.

Debbie O’Connor, whose eight-year-old son Ryan is a student at the Matheny School, is the Social Concerns chair of Immaculate Conception’s Home and School Association. She suggested Matheny as this year’s beneficiary, saying, “Matheny tries to provide these children with every opportunity to experience life at the highest quality possible. They set no boundaries for any of these children but allow them to thrive in a safe medical environment.”

Sharing her own experience, she said, “We were told there was no chance Ryan would ever walk. On Christmas Day 2008, at the age of almost six, Ryan stood up and walked, completely unassisted for an extended period of time. This would never have been possible if he were not in the hands of the staff at Matheny.”

For more information, contact Debbie O’Connor at djoconnor6@comcast.net.

Gov. Christie at the NJHA annual meeting.

So said New Jersey Gov. Chris Christie, who praised New Jersey hospitals and the New Jersey Hospital Association at the NJHA’s recent annual meeting. Matheny is a member of NJHA, which is a not-for-profit trade organization committed to helping New Jersey hospitals and health systems provide quality, accessible and affordable care to their communities.

Gov. Christie recognized the financial pressures confronting hospitals in the state but said the government cannot “continue to buttress up [struggling] hospitals. That’s not the way to sustain a viable and vibrant health system in the state.” The Governor commended New Jersey hospitals for managing to serve their communities and patients through difficult times, adding, “I appreciate what you’ve done – how you’ve hung in there.”

Matheny has filed an appeal in New Jersey Superior Court to overturn the Peapack-Gladstone Land Use Board’s decision that Matheny is not a “permitted use” in its current location. The Land Use Board made this decision even though Matheny has existed in its current location since the 1950s and has received many land use approvals for various projects over the years.

The appeal also seeks to overturn the Board’s decision to deny Matheny’s expansion plans. The long period of time that elapsed during the Land Use proceedings has exacerbated what was already a criticial situation — the number of children with medically complex developmental disabilities who need a residential facility.

Matheny is proud to be a member of the Peapack-Gladstone community and appreciates the support of the majority of its residents.

A happy crew at the end of the Lu Huggins Wheelchair Walk in 2011.

We are looking for volunteers to help make the 15th Miles for Matheny fundraiser and community event the best ever. We need people to assist with set up, registration, tee shirt distribution, rest stops and lots more!

Face painters, strolling musicians and magicians and wheelchair pushers are also needed. Opportunities for groups and individuals are available. Be a part of a great day!

Want details? Ready to sign up now? Contact Gail Cunningham at 908-234-0011, ext. 282 or email volunteers@matheny.org.

Sandra Van Nest.

Sandra Van Nest believes in taking baby steps.

A licensed clinical social worker and developmental interventionist in New Jersey’s Early Intervention system, Van Nest often is confronted with “two-year-olds who don’t know how to indicate what they want.  They don’t have any words.  They don’t really pay attention to the people around them.  By slowly and surely working with them for several hours a week, over a year or 1 1/2 years, I watch them go from that to, by age three, looking at their mother when she comes in the door and saying, ‘Momma’. That’s absolutely the most amazing thing. They’re learning how to speak, and they’re doing those intellectual things; and they’re also catching up on that emotional side; and they’re really connecting with the people in their world.”

Van Nest is also a field supervisor in Matheny’s community services program.  In that role, she is now coordinating a new project  to teach social skills to two-and three-year-old children with autism spectrum disorder or ADHD, or who have difficulties with sensory integration. “Parents of the children I see,” she explains, “often report to me that their children really have a hard time being in a group or out in public.  Their children have a hard time with the loud sounds, bright lights and unpredictability of their toddler peers.  And, if you are a child who doesn’t speak, the only way to show your displeasure is to yell, cry or tantrum.  These parents are looking for a way to help their children feel more comfortable in groups of peers and other public places.”

The New Jersey Early Intervention system, she points out, “does not usually provide for group work.  It is a wonderful system that emphasizes the individual child and his or her family.  However, the parents are looking for other therapy options that include small groups with an emphasis on social skills.  We, at Matheny, are excited to be filling this need within our community.”

If you’d like more information about this program, call (908) 234-0011, ext. 751 or email lnewsome@matheny.org.

Anthony LaFond, an artist in Matheny’s Arts Access Program, is celebrating the publication of one of his poems, “God’s Gift to Me” in the winter 2012 issue of Breath & Shadow, a journal of disability culture and literature. The 30-year-old LaFond, who has muscular dystrophy, has been writing since he was 17 years old. While he enjoys writing stories, his real passion is poetry.

God’s Gift to Me

My wheelchair is a part of me.
When he moves, it is like a tank under my control.

My wheelchair has a chair like a portable bed.
His wheels are round like a balloon.
And his motor moves me as fast as a 10-speed bike.

He is shaped like a throne that is sitting on top of the world.

He rides like he is flying me through the air.
The wind blows by like I’m going downhill on a rollercoaster.

Sometimes when I go fast, my eyes start to cry.
I feel what he feels.

He goes where I go, just like a shadow.
He tells me when he is hungry and tired.

Sometimes he reminds me, he has a mind of his own.
He shows me when he needs a change of feet.
His one eye glows at night when I need light.

He carries my bags all day long and never lets go.
He is my defense weapon against anyone who wants to hurt me.

His timing is one of a kind.
When I let go of his messenger, he stops on a dime.
When I need him to zig and zag, he does it with such skill.

He reminds me of who I am, and I am very thankful for that.
He reminds me of what I have and not what I don’t have.

He is God’s gift to me, and when he dies,
I will have to get another.

But each gift God gives me does not make me feel the same way.
They each have their own talent.

My chair’s name is Junior, after my first chair,
Lightning,
And I his father.

He is me
And I him,
And I shall never forget that.

LaFond, above, read “God’s Gift to Me” at Full Circle 2011 Dimensions, the annual celebration of the Arts Access Program. Arts Access enables people with disabilities to create fine art, assisted by professional artist-facilitators. Breath & Shadow is the only online literary journal with a focus on disability. It is written and edited entirely by people with disabilities.

Thanks to Sen. Christopher “Kip” Bateman (R), Sen. Robert W. Singer (R) and Assemblywoman Mila M. Jasey (D) for sponsoring bills that were signed into law by New Jersey Governor Chris Christie on January 17 providing families of persons with developmental disabilities greater autonomy in making decisions about participation in potentially beneficial research.

The original bill was drafted by Sen. Bateman in response to a suggestion by Matheny.

The law resolves an inconsistency regarding guardian requirements contained in two previous pieces of legislation: The Developmentally Disabled Rights Act of 1977 and the Access to Medical Research Act of 2007. It also expanded the range of studies that are allowed to include ones that might not have direct benefit to the individual participant, but might have broader benefit to persons with disabilities.

The practical benefit of the new law is that families of persons with developmental disabilities will have the freedom that other families enjoy to weigh the risks and benefits of an appropriately reviewed and approved research study. And they will make their own informed decisions about whether or not their family members will participate.

Above, from left: Matheny student Bryan Desatnick, teaching assistant Josh Burke, Sen. Bateman and student Mason Walsh during a previous visit to Matheny by the Senator.

“Pure Expression,” an exhibition opening February 12 at the Monmouth Museum in Lincroft, NJ, will feature paintings by artists in Matheny’s Arts Access Program.  Arts Access enables people with disabilities to create fine art, assisted by professional artist-facilitators.

Through the use of specialized communication and choice systems, the artists are able to follow their creative passions and are encouraged to build upon their instincts and inner strengths. The ability to create fine art lets the artists define themselves by their achievements rather than by their disabilities. In addition to painting, the Arts Access Program encompasses digital art, sculpture, drama, writing, dance and choreography.

The Monmouth Museum is a private, non-profit organization located at 765 Newman Springs Road in Lincroft on the campus of Brookdale Community College. Admission is $7. The exhibit will begin with a reception, free and open to the public, from 3-5 p.m. on Sunday, February 12. It will run through March 18.

For hours and additional information, call (732) 747-2266 or visit www.monmouthmuseum.org.

Above, “Wisdom,” by Annie Paloff.

Below, “Beautiful Squares,” by Amy Ring.

Matheny is planning a new series of social skills groups for children with special needs. Parents will learn techniques to facilitate their child’s social skills and ability to interact in a group. This group will mirror a typical preschool experience with songs, crafts, games and play. It will be a fun and therapeutic way for families to meet others in their communities and interact with their children.

We recognize the escalating need for social skills intervention for children on the autism spectrum as well as those having other developmental delays that impact social skills,

The series will focus on children 2 to 3 years of age and will be held in locations in Somerset and Morris Counties.

The classes will involve both child and parent participation and are designed for children with a diagnosis or symptoms of autism spectrum disorder, ADHD and/or sensory integration difficulties.

For more information, call (908) 234-0011, ext. 751, or email lnewsome@matheny.org

Above, a Matheny speech-language pathologist works with a child in early intervention.

Are you looking for a country run where city life seems far away? If so, look no further than the Miles for Matheny 5K Run. Hundreds of athletes will join us on Sunday, April 22, for a day of running as well as biking, walking, food and fun.

Miles for Matheny is a fundraiser and community event that also includes several Cycling routes, a Kids Fun Run and our signature event, the Lu Huggins Wheelchair Walk. The 5K run starts at 12:15 p.m. at Liberty Park in downtown Peapack, NJ. The course is USATF-certified, traffic-free and multi-surface on a road and hard packed gravel. There will be mile clocks and a water stop. Results will be posted on www.compuscore.com.

Age groups are 5 years to 85+. Last year, 380 runners participated in the 5K. The winners were:

• Male: 17-year-old Matthew Goroff of Brookline, MA, brother of Matheny student Louise Goroff, with a time of 18:15.11

• Female: 28-year-old Jane Albright of Basking Ridge, NJ, with a time of 20:59.23.

Please join us for breakfast and our post-race lunch. When you finish the 5K, there will still be time to walk over to see the end of the Lu Huggins Wheelchair Walk and cheer for the Matheny students and patients as they cross the finish line.

All funds raised will help support the Matheny Center of Medicine and Dentistry, which provides medical, dental and therapy care to Matheny inpatients and people with disabilities in the community.

Above, the start of the 5K in 2011.

Looking for a great way to celebrate Mardi Gras this year? Check out the Verve Bistro Bar Lounge in Somerville, NJ, on Fat Tuesday, February 21, or on the preceding Friday or Saturday, February 17 and 18. Why? To party for a good cause—Matheny.

Verve will be holding its annual Mardi Gras-Carnivale Party with music, beads and trinkets and a special menu on those three dates. On Fat Tuesday, 10% of all proceeds will be donated to Matheny, and anyone making a reservation on February 17 and 18 and mentioning Matheny will automatically redirect 10% of the bill to Matheny as well.

A special feature of the Fat Tuesday celebration is the annual Mardi Gras silent mask auction, and a portion of the auction proceeds will also benefit Matheny. In fact, Matheny supporters are encouraged by Verve owner Rick St. Pierre to make Mardi Gras masks and drop them off at the restaurant, 18 East Main Street, by February 11.  There are no rules involved in making the masks — ranging from experienced artists starting from scratch to kids and amateurs applying paper mache to plastic craft store models.

Since opening Verve in the late 1990s, St. Pierre has continually given back to the community. He was recently named Somerville’s 2011 Citizen of the Year. He is chairman of the Downtown Somerville Alliance events committee and, in addition to the Mardi Gras fundraiser, he is involved in many other activities that support nonprofit organizations around and beyond Somerset County. In 2008, he was given the Somerset County Business Partnership’s Economic Vitality Award.

To make reservations for the Mardi Gras celebration, call (908) 707-8655, and don’t forget to mention Matheny.

Congratulations to the top fundraisers at Miles for Matheny in 2011:

• The Desatnick Family (Bryan’s Team) of Basking Ridge, NJ
• The Goroff-Friedlander Family (Team L’Equipe Louise) of Brookline, MA (pictured above)
• The Harter Family (Jack’s Team) of Madison, NJ
• Andrew Lash (Team Andy “Flash” Lash) of Franklin Township, NJ
• The May Family (Team Mason) of Bridgewater, NJ
• Sarah Malzberg (Sarah’s Mitzvah) of Pottersville, NJ (pictured below)
• Beth Misener of Succasunna, NJ
• The Schapiro Family (Team Schapiro) of Basking Ridge, NJ
• Stephanie Young of Bridgewater, NJ